6 Perks of Dating an ‘Overthinker’
Overthinking is always considered a negative trait in us as humans BUT when it comes to dating one — it can turn into a BLESSING for a happy relationship!
Overthinking is a psychological issue that can lead to depression, anxiety, and other similar mental disorders! Dealing with someone who is an overthinker can be really difficult- let alone dating one.
But, if you are dating an overthinker, here are some of the surprises in life you need to be prepared for and enjoy:
1. Problem Fixer
If you are hurt, worried, or disturbed — whatever may be the reason, they won’t let you go to the bed without making you feel at ease. Overthinkers are huge believers in fixing issues in the right way, even if it costs them their peaceful sleep.
2. Prioritize Partner’s Feelings
When an overthinker falls in love, they prefer to hurt their own feelings than to hurt the feelings of their partner. The feelings and emotions of their better half will always be their first priority.
3. Amazing Observers
They will notice your daily routine and just by observing you, they will figure out all about your likes and dislikes. You won’t even feel the need of sharing it cause they already know it.
4. Value Your Efforts
Planning to buy a gift to surprise your overthinker partner? Don’t do it. Instead, make something for them — lunch, dinner, or even a greeting will do. Your overthinker partner will always value your efforts over anything else.
5. Wise with Words
An overthinker knows that words hurt deeper than any weapon. Hence, even when they are angry, they won’t say mean things to hurt you. You may think that they are overthinking sometimes, but in reality, they have already imagined these incidents and are mentally prepared to face them without hurting you.
6. Always Available
What time is it? 3 AM? Don’t worry! Your partner will always be available to listen to your crisis and even try to help you deal with it. So dial their number without any more thoughts.
Are you dating an overthinker? What are your observations?
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